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wonderful unfair parents (can't handle much more)
May 9 2010, 5:58 AM EDT
im 16 and head over heels in love with my boyfirend of a year and a bit, he has just turned 21, my parents strongly dislike h, im because of his age, they called the cops on him for statutory rape, cops couldnt do anything, me and my mum and dad have been fighting alot, like evry single day, i dont mean to be horrible but i blame them for trying to take him away from me, im ready to move out, he doesn't smoke, hardly drinks, and doesn't do any illegal drugs, i have too see him 1 1/2 on a monday and tuesday because dad verbally threats that he will "take the second step with the cops" im 16 and running out of patients fast! and losing it more often than normal, would they think of living with my boyfriend, me being at risk? if not what exactly are the steps i take to leave? and if so how can i see him legally?somebody please help. any information usefull Do you find this valuable? |
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1. RE: wonderful unfair parents (can't handle much more)
May 10 2010, 7:05 AM EDT
Well your 16 years of age so legally you can move out, On the condition that you are in a safe environment. If your boyfriend does come over to your house, your parents may possibly sue him for trespass. But what i suggest is maybe get another relative to talk to your parents and convince them to perhaps meet and talk with your boyfriend, get to know him. I understand that they only want the best for you and are concerned about the age difference. Maybe speak to a social worker at school?
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2. RE: wonderful unfair parents (can't handle much more)
May 10 2010, 7:43 PM EDT
i have sent a letter to anyone who will listen about my sistuation, and my family are against him, my sister is verbally abusive to him whenever she see's him, my father gets people to intimidate him, im on my last nerve with living with my family, as i know they oonly want the best for me, but is making my life miserable is there any ways i can get lagl help with moving out? Do you find this valuable? |
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3. RE: wonderful unfair parents (can't handle much more)
May 26 2010, 6:43 AM EDT
Can you talk to your parents? Are you able to say to them... Look, I am thinking about moving out because you are making me feel this way... etc....? If they wont talk or listen to you, you are 16, your old enough to make your own decisions. Just remember, you are not 16... you are ONLY 16. Think about what you are doing honey, just because you want to be with him, it doesnt mean you should be with him. Think about these things first before you make any decisions...1. Is he worth moving out of home for? Will he support you, financially, emotionally, in every way like your parents can? 2. Can you rely on him? Can you trust him? Can you live with him? Will you fight all the time over stupid things? 3. Can he live with you? I love my partner, but mannnnnn, he has some real annoying habbits... sometimes he drives me mental. 4. Are you moving in with him? Where are you moving? How can you contribute to your living there? Do you have a job or will he or they... expect other things to accommodate you? Living is not cheap you know? 5. Clothing, schooling all that stuff costs you know? Only a couple of things to think about, dont make any sudden decisions kay, just think about it first, if you have it all worked out, then good luck. Just one bit of advise from me.... if he loves you the way we all long for our partners to love us.... then he will support your decision no matter what happens. If you just settled down a bit, listened to your parents, go to school and just talk to your partner on the phone or meet him at certain times, a year or so may pass by and if he is still there for you, your parents may be more accepting of him because of his patients. Respect comes with time and works in conjunction with his actions, it sounds like they have no respect for him, but he may not deserve it, so take some time out and stop fighting against the grain, its much easier to go with the flow... you know? 1 out of 1 found this valuable. Do you? |
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4. RE: wonderful unfair parents (can't handle much more)
May 26 2010, 5:04 PM EDT
thank you so much, i have a job not enough hours though =[ still having a hard time though , am still going to school as well doing at least 25 hours a week (sometimes)i love him hes my other half we been together for a year and half and hes my heart, i trust him with my life , but living here is just not working Do you find this valuable? |
