As already metioned it depends how old you are. The court must allow any child or young person to 'participate in decisions' that affect them, obviously who you will live with is a major decision and you views should be taken into account. If there are court proceedings about this you will be appointed your own lawyer. It is important to ensure your lawyer takes your views into account and puts your views across in any court case about who you will live with. You could check out our info sheet for more info about Lawyer for Child http://www.youthlaw.co.nz/page/lawyers+for+young+people
Although it is useful to remember that your parents, lawyers and judge may not agree with your preference and does not have to act on your view.

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